{"id":12576,"date":"2018-06-12T08:25:14","date_gmt":"2018-06-11T22:25:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/?p=12576"},"modified":"2018-06-10T14:20:19","modified_gmt":"2018-06-10T04:20:19","slug":"how-opportunity-knocks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/how-opportunity-knocks\/","title":{"rendered":"How Opportunity Knocks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-12588 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/door-1590024_960_720-300x160.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"160\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/door-1590024_960_720-300x160.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/door-1590024_960_720-768x410.jpg 768w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/door-1590024_960_720-150x80.jpg 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/door-1590024_960_720.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Opportunity can be a funny old creature. It often hides in the shadows out of reach or lurks where you least expect to find it. It can disguise itself as a closed door or sheer cliff-face drop destined to destroy you. It can seem to offer itself to everyone else except you, then laugh at you with them behind your back.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, if you risk those shadows or that cliff-face, if you pause to peer closer at that closed door, and the gold glimmering under its black paintwork, it can give you exactly what you want or need.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-12578\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Facebook-anniversary-211x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"211\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Facebook-anniversary-211x300.png 211w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Facebook-anniversary-105x150.png 105w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Facebook-anniversary.png 461w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 211px) 100vw, 211px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-12577 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Twitter-annivesary-169x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Twitter-annivesary-169x300.png 169w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Twitter-annivesary-577x1024.png 577w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Twitter-annivesary-85x150.png 85w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Twitter-annivesary.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/>Last month I had my 8-year <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ZenaShapter?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twitter<\/a> anniversary. Last November I had my 10-year <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ZenaShapter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a> anniversary. I love social media! In fact, I wish I had more time to spend chatting on there. My new favourite is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/zenashapter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a>. I first got online when I was a recently-immigrated stay-at-home mum of two children under two, trying to find my way in a country where I had no friends or family who could help me through the tough times, and I simply needed to talk to people. It was a lifeline. Not only could I connect with real live adults, but I found story-loving tribes who wanted to talk about stories. Amazing!<\/p>\n<p>Once the kids were old enough, I joined a face-to-face writing group and, on discovering my love of social media, they asked me to teach them about it \u2013 and they\u2019d pay me! I had cut down on my work as a freelance editor and copywriter to have children, working only from home while the kids had their day-naps and then at weekends, so it had been years since I\u2019d prepared or given a presentation. I was petrified!<\/p>\n<p>My husband helped with my nerves. \u201cDo you know more than those listening, Zena?\u201d he asked me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, I think so. Yes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen you\u2019ve got nothing to worry about.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So I prepared my talk, gave it and got paid.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-12580\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-social-media-talk-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-social-media-talk-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-social-media-talk-113x150.jpg 113w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-social-media-talk.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Then another group asked me. Then another. It wasn\u2019t exactly what I wanted to get known for among writers, as all throughout this time I was also writing creatively and trying to sell and promote my stories. But you never know where opportunity will lead you, so I kept going and ended up teaching social media regularly at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mec.nsw.edu.au\/modules\/find.html?TutorID=1908\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mosman Community College<\/a>, blogging and website-building too. I began to joke with students that I was part-cyber.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12581\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-part-cyber-writer-300x207.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"277\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-part-cyber-writer-300x207.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-part-cyber-writer-768x531.jpg 768w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-part-cyber-writer-1024x708.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-part-cyber-writer-150x104.jpg 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-part-cyber-writer.jpg 1576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After a while, once I\u2019d won several writing competitions, the college then invited me to teach an introductory writing course. Yes, please! Naturally, I was nervous at first.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo you know more than those listening, Zena?\u201d my husband asked again.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNot everyone, but most, probably, yes. Yes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen you\u2019ve got nothing to worry about.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It was such a success I began offering all kinds of writing classes. Soon libraries, writing groups, schools and even retirement villages were all asking me to teach creative writing classes, so I did. Not only that, but my students wanted to know about my own writing \u2013 I could finally sell and promote my stories! That\u2019s what I\u2019d wanted all along! And then, when my debut novel came out last year (<a href=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/portfolio\/towards-white\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Towards White<\/em>, IFWG<\/a>), I already had an established readership and fans.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12603\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-crowd5-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"334\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-crowd5-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-crowd5-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-crowd5-150x100.jpg 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-crowd5.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12604\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4-300x167.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"277\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4-300x167.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4-768x426.jpg 768w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4-150x83.jpg 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Opportunity can indeed be a surprising creature. I now teach so many classes (check them out <a href=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/talks\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a> if you\u2019re interested) that I also mentor writers and tutor primary and high school students, judge writing competitions, and help publishers and authors publish print books and ebooks (check out my <a href=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/creative-support\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">creative support services<\/a>!). All of which pays well enough for me to still work from home, so I get time each day to write too. All from getting on social media.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I\u2019m sure if I were to analyse it more closely, there would be way more to my lifestyle than grabbing opportunities as they arise. But still, it\u2019s helped.<\/p>\n<p>Do you welcome opportunities when you find them, or look away because they\u2019re not exactly what you want?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-12585\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-battery-usage-169x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"141\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-battery-usage-169x300.png 169w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-battery-usage-577x1024.png 577w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-battery-usage-85x150.png 85w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-battery-usage.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 141px) 100vw, 141px\" \/>Did you know<\/strong>: you can get an idea of how much time you spend on social media on your phone? If you go into your phone\u2019s \u2018Settings\u2019 and go to \u2018Battery\u2019, there\u2019s often a usage table showing you which applications you use the most.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Did you know<\/strong>: if you turn off &#8216;locked-screen notifications&#8217; on your phone it won\u2019t bleep and distract you while working or, most importantly, writing. I often leave my phone in another part of the house too, so it takes effort to unlock that screen!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Thank you for connecting with me on social media \u2013 here on my blog, on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ZenaShapter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ZenaShapter?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twitter<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/zenashapter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com.au\/ZenaShapter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pinterest<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/zenashapter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a> or anywhere else where our social paths cross!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_12586\" style=\"width: 245px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12586\" class=\"wp-image-12586 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-subscribers-reaching-people.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"235\" height=\"165\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-subscribers-reaching-people.png 235w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-subscribers-reaching-people-150x105.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 235px) 100vw, 235px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-12586\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Thanks for connect on my blog!<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_12587\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12587\" class=\"wp-image-12587 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Facebook-reaching-people-300x171.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"171\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Facebook-reaching-people-300x171.png 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Facebook-reaching-people-150x86.png 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Zena-Shapter-Facebook-reaching-people.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-12587\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">And Facebook and everywhere!<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Opportunity can be a funny old creature. 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