{"id":12669,"date":"2018-08-10T08:25:48","date_gmt":"2018-08-09T22:25:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/?p=12669"},"modified":"2018-08-09T13:59:10","modified_gmt":"2018-08-09T03:59:10","slug":"15-ways-to-survive-while-under-pressure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/15-ways-to-survive-while-under-pressure\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Ways to Survive While Under Pressure"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span lang=\"EN-US\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-12670\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/frog-1339892_960_720-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/frog-1339892_960_720-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/frog-1339892_960_720-768x510.jpg 768w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/frog-1339892_960_720-150x100.jpg 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/frog-1339892_960_720.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Have you ever been so busy with work that it puts a strain on your health or relationships? Like the well-known stress management scenario about holding a cup of water \u2013 you can hold a cup of water easily enough for a minute, but after an hour your arm will ache, and after a day you could do enough damage to merit a doctor. <\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">Like this <a href=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/frogs\/\">frog<\/a>. I&#8217;m sure he could carry anything for a short time; but sooner or later something will fall if he keeps going!<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">Well, today I\u2019ve got some stress management tips to offer, no matter who you are or what you do. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-12671\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/woman-1852907_960_720-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/woman-1852907_960_720-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/woman-1852907_960_720-768x510.jpg 768w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/woman-1852907_960_720-150x100.jpg 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/woman-1852907_960_720.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">As you may have noticed, I\u2019m a writer, and writers constantly have to juggle their workload. Ever heard of the phrase \u2018struggling artist\u2019? That\u2019s because The Arts isn\u2019t a well-paid industry. It&#8217;s not unknown for artists to have several jobs, work long hours, <\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">diversify their skills and offer them up for hire<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">, and seek financial support from those passionate about creativity and culture in their local community, all just to make ends meet. When a work opportunity comes along, <\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">we have to take it no matter what else we&#8217;ve got going on, which means we often go through periods of being extremely busy. And we still have<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\"> to find time to progress our personal creative projects (which I&#8217;ve also blogged about <a href=\"http:\/\/csfg.org.au\/2014\/05\/15\/time-management-for-writers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">over here on the CSFG blog<\/a>), because being creative is why we&#8217;re artists in the first place. <\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">All this juggling can sure put a strain on<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\"> our health and relationships!<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_12304\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12304\" class=\"wp-image-12304 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4-300x167.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"167\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4-300x167.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4-768x426.jpg 768w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4-150x83.jpg 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Towards-White-Zena-Shapter-qa4.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-12304\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Speaking at Harry Hartog&#8217;s launch, Sydney.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">For this reason, when my novel \u2018<a href=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/portfolio\/towards-white\/\">Towards White<\/a>\u2019 came out last year, and interviewers asked me \u2018<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">What is the key to your success as a writer to date?\u2019, my answer was: &#8220;Determination in spite of everything, but not everyone&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">&#8220;Sacrifice and hard work will get you far,&#8221; I told them, &#8220;but you don\u2019t want to be alone at the end of it, or for your health to suffer. Talent is nothing if you don\u2019t put in the time. But you also have to put down the laptop when others needed help or attention, or to look after your health. It\u2019s a matter of balance, of course. Oh, and chocolate and wine, definitely <a href=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/chocolate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">chocolate<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/champagne\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wine<\/a>.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">He he, of course balance is the answer! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">But when balance simply isn&#8217;t possible, because we&#8217;re going through a busy period, how do we stay sane? If we don&#8217;t relax a little or have fun, we&#8217;ll burn out. Like the cup. Or drop things. Like the frog.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-12672 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/pocket-watch-3156771_960_720-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/pocket-watch-3156771_960_720-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/pocket-watch-3156771_960_720-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/pocket-watch-3156771_960_720-150x100.jpg 150w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/pocket-watch-3156771_960_720.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">Last week, in a writing forum I follow, a member asked for coping strategies for when you\u2019re overworked and overwhelmed but taking time off isn\u2019t an option. Being a forum full of writers, of course there were plenty of suggestions. We know how to juggle! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">The solution is to relax and have fun but in short bursts \u2013 which is why most of t<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">he suggestions could be fitted into 10-15 minute slots, my own included. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">I <\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\"> thought the suggestions might be useful for anyone, anywhere, so here&#8217;s a summary of the best ones,<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\"> including mine at the end. <\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">Next time you&#8217;re going through a busy period<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\">, why not set your alarm and schedule one for mid-morning, and another for mid-afternoon?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Walk The Block \u2013 walk fast enough around the block to get a little puffy.<\/span><span lang=\"EN-US\"> The change of scene and exercise can recharge you in 10-15 minutes.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Inspire Yourself With Art \u2013 spend 10 minutes sketching, doodling, or looking up some art of your choice for no reason other than to look at art. <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Dance Break \u2013 put on 2-3 of your favourite upbeat tracks and dance around, or hula-hoop to the music. Give your adrenalin somewhere to go.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Meditate \u2013 the \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/buddhify.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Buddhify<\/a>\u2019 or \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/www.headspace.com\/headspace-meditation-app\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Headspace<\/a>\u2019 apps offer 2-3 minute work-break meditations.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Stretch It Out \u2013 do some yoga or Pilates for 15 minutes to get the blood flowing, or even just lie on the floor and rest your feet on the wall.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Warm Water \u2013 immerse your hands in a sink or bowl of warm water for five minutes. It\u2019s not as good as a bath, but it\u2019s less water and quicker! Alternatively, have a quick shower (if you\u2019re near one), and then change your clothes so you feel like you\u2019re starting afresh.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Boil A Cuppa \u2013 instead of reaching for the coffee though, try a herbal tea, and take the time it takes for the water to boil to think of nothing.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Break Down Your W.I.P List \u2013 break bigger tasks down into more manageable sub-tasks and do one each day so you make progress with everything. Knock off some of the easier tasks first, just to get the list looking slimmer.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Pat A Pet Or Person \u2013 cuddles solve everything!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Change Of Workspace \u2013 take your work outside and sit under a tree, go to a caf\u00e9 or shopping centre.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Watch For Escape \u2013 watch a short 10-15 minute film, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TED talk<\/a>, or part of a favourite television show.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Envision Happiness \u2013 think about what makes you happy, or plan what you\u2019d like to do once this period of high-intensity work settles into a more manageable work-life balance again. Share your vision with friends and family so they know that <i>you<\/i> know this stressful period is only for a short time.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Forgive Yourself \u2013 as long as you\u2019re doing the best you can in the present moment, don\u2019t be upset that you\u2019re overwhelmed, time-poor or stressed.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Remind Yourself \u2013 is the pressure you\u2019re under really a gift in disguise? Perhaps this work will bring you more money or opportunities? Make a list of the pros.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"EN-US\">Warm Eyes \u2013 my personal favourite, sit somewhere warm or sunny, close your eyes for 10 minutes and listen to your breathing and surroundings. It gives your whole body a break from working on the computer, warms you up (like a cuddle, bath or shower), clears your mind, and energises you too.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">Have you got any suggestions to add? How do you stay sane when the pressure&#8217;s on?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever been so busy with work that it puts a strain on your health or relationships? 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