{"id":5802,"date":"2013-03-25T08:35:08","date_gmt":"2013-03-24T21:35:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zenashapter.com\/blog\/?p=5802"},"modified":"2021-08-30T16:40:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T06:40:50","slug":"swearing-in-fiction-is-it-realistic-without","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/swearing-in-fiction-is-it-realistic-without\/","title":{"rendered":"Swearing In Fiction &#8230; is it realistic without?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_5816\" style=\"width: 207px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Screen-shot-2013-03-22-at-1.52.41-PM.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5816\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5816\" alt=\"Do you swear?\" src=\"http:\/\/www.zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Screen-shot-2013-03-22-at-1.52.41-PM-211x300.png\" width=\"197\" height=\"280\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5816\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Do you swear?<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Last month, I shared a photo on my Facebook stream about the universe. It had stars and mountains and a lot of swearing in it. As soon as she saw it, my mother called. She was surprised I would swear on Facebook. Wasn\u2019t I worried what other people would think?<\/p>\n<p>Well, after debating with her the differences between swearing on Facebook, and sharing a photo on Facebook that someone else had created with swearing in it, I said I thought it was okay because the swearing was meant in reverence and awe.<\/p>\n<p>In my head, I also thought \u2018wow, she really does not read much of my writing\u2019 \u2013 because a lot of my characters swear. It makes reading my work aloud to groups of eager listeners tricky for me because, well, I don&#8217;t really swear myself. In fact, I get embarrassed when I have to read the words aloud (come and watch me squirm sometime, I go red in the face!).<!--more--><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5817\" style=\"width: 227px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Screen-shot-2013-03-22-at-1.53.17-PM.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5817\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5817 \" alt=\"Is it realistic fiction without?\" src=\"http:\/\/www.zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Screen-shot-2013-03-22-at-1.53.17-PM-300x270.png\" width=\"217\" height=\"195\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5817\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Is it realistic fiction without?<\/p><\/div>\n<p>So why do my characters swear? Simple \u2013 most of the people in my life swear. People swear on television, in movies, on the street too\u2026 I prefer it if friends and family don&#8217;t swear in front of my children, but that&#8217;s because their world is so different to that of adults and I want to keep it that way as long as possible. I also don\u2019t like Hubbie to swear in arguments. But then I <em>am<\/em> gifted with the ability to rile him more than most\u2026 (he he).<\/p>\n<p>For the majority of adults, however, swearing is a normal part of everyday life. If they don\u2019t swear themselves, like me (unless I stub a toe), then they know someone who does. So I wanted to know\u2026 how do writers handle swearing in their fiction? Are they happy to create characters who swear, or does it depend on their own use of profanity?<\/p>\n<p>Along came one of my famous Facebook polls and, after a couple of weeks voting, here are the results:<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5842\" style=\"width: 633px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Screen-shot-2013-03-22-at-2.10.39-PM.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5842\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5842\" alt=\"Results as at 22 March 2013 Incorporates results from Facebook &amp; Twitter.\" src=\"http:\/\/www.zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Screen-shot-2013-03-22-at-2.10.39-PM.jpg\" width=\"623\" height=\"395\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-5842\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Results as at 22 March 2013<br \/>Incorporates results from Facebook &amp; Twitter.<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Thanks to my writer-buddies who answered the poll or who commented on it: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/margo.lanagan?fref=pb\">Margo Lanagan<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/catsparks?fref=pb\">Catriona Sparks<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jasonifischerio?fref=pb\">Jason Fischer<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/mary.victoria?fref=pb\">Mary Victoria<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lauragoodin?fref=pb\">Laura E. Goodin<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/gnbraun13\">Geoff Brown<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/gillian.polack\">Gillian Polack<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/graham.storrs\">Graham Storrs<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/kylie.scott.142?fref=pb\">Kylie Scott<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/AndrewJMcKiernan?fref=pb\">Andrew J McKiernan<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/bruce.lyman\">Bruce Lyman<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/martinlivings\">Martin Livings<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/alanrbaxter?fref=pb\">Alan Baxter<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/nansi.kunze.7?fref=pb\">Nansi Kunze<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/leife.shallcross?fref=pb\">Leife Shallcross<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/leigh.blackmore?fref=pb\">Leigh Blackmore<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/tom.dullemond?fref=pb\">Tom Dullemond<\/a>, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">David McDonald<\/span>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/imelda.evans.9?fref=pb\">Imelda Evans<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jodi.cleghorn?fref=pb\">Jodi Cleghorn<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ross.hamilton.188?fref=pb\">Ross Hamilton<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/zoyanojin1\">Zoya Nojin<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/anne.swan.395\">Anne Swan<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/fuzzy.mijmark?fref=pb\">F\u00fczzy Mijmark<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/joshwhiteman?fref=pb\">Josh Whiteman<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/matjam.morrison?fref=pb\">Matthew Morrison<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/wadebowmer?fref=pb\">Wade Bowmer<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/dmartinwatson?fref=pb\">Devin Watson<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/laura.dunkeyson?fref=pb\">Laura Miller<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/carol.nealthomas?fref=pb\">Carol Neal Thomas<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/otura.novel?fref=pb\">Author Katherine Vucicevic<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/barry.a.gibbons?fref=pb\">Barry Allen Gibbons II<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/mcclelland.jo?fref=pb\">Jo McClelland<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/dorothyjane.daniels?fref=pb\">Dorothy-Jane Daniels<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jackicross?fref=pb\">Jacqueline Cross<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/amanda.bridgeman.3?fref=pb\">Amanda Jayne<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/kate.shapter?fref=pb\">Kate Shapter<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/simon.dillon.773?fref=pb\">Simon Dillon<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/pippa.jay.9?fref=pb\">Pippa Jay<\/a>, Simon Robertson, Simon Dewar<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This was my most commented-on poll to date, with a lot of writers debating the when and how of their characters swearing. A couple of writers were keen to establish that they have never used and would never use swearing just for shock value. For me, that&#8217;s a given though. I don&#8217;t know any writers like that \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>I had lots of humorous comments too, on both Facebook and Twitter, declaring that characters who don&#8217;t swear are barely worth writing about (thanks old copywriting buddy Josh \u2013 ha ha).<\/p>\n<p>But all joking aside, it seems I have a clear answer to my question. While some writers create characters who swear and some don&#8217;t, most create them &#8216;sometimes&#8217; (irrespective of whether they swear themselves). Given that &#8216;sometimes&#8217; could be said to be a qualification of &#8216;yes&#8217;, then the results reconfigured more simply give:<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_8551\" style=\"width: 512px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/yesorno.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8551\" class=\" wp-image-8551  \" alt=\"Results as at 22 March 2013\" src=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/yesorno-1024x651.png\" width=\"502\" height=\"319\" srcset=\"http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/yesorno-1024x651.png 1024w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/yesorno-300x190.png 300w, http:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/yesorno.png 1053w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 502px) 100vw, 502px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8551\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Results as at 22 March 2013<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Phew! I&#8217;m relieved you all think swearing is a common enough human characteristic to represent it in your writing, to various degrees. It is a realistic approach to fiction, I feel.<\/p>\n<p>Why we humans swear&#8230; well that&#8217;s another matter. On <a title=\"MythBusters\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/MythBusters_%282010_season%29#Episode_142_.E2.80.93_No_Pain.2C_No_Gain\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">episode 142<\/a> of the 2010 season of MythBusters, the hosts devised an experiment that proved swearing aloud aids pain tolerance by 30%. Perhaps that&#8217;s why a lot of my characters swear \u2013 I do like to push their physical and emotional boundaries, he he.<\/p>\n<p>As for that Facebook post of mine that sparked this discussion&#8230; it&#8217;s here: <a title=\"Universe is Rad\" href=\"http:\/\/weknowmemes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/the-universe-is-fucking-rad-meme.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;The Universe is ?#@*&amp;%! rad&#8221;<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Now&#8230; what about you? Do you swear yourself and does that influence whether your characters swear in your stories? Let me know in the comments below!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last month, I shared a photo on my Facebook stream about the universe. It had stars and mountains and a lot of swearing in it. As soon as she saw it, my mother called. She was surprised I would swear on Facebook. 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