{"id":1958,"date":"2011-07-21T19:43:42","date_gmt":"2011-07-21T09:43:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zenashapter.com\/blog\/?p=1958"},"modified":"2011-07-21T19:43:42","modified_gmt":"2011-07-21T09:43:42","slug":"how-to-write-realistic-female-characters-genresattack2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zenashapter.com\/blog\/how-to-write-realistic-female-characters-genresattack2\/","title":{"rendered":"How to write realistic female characters. #genresattack2"},"content":{"rendered":"

What type of women are you, and what are you not?<\/h3>\n
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Women are complex creatures!<\/p><\/div>\n

Different women respond to the same female character in different ways. Of course they do, because not all women are the same. So how do you write a realistic female character that will appeal to most women?<\/p>\n

Women are complex creatures. They have layers and thoughts and feelings and unresolved histories. They can multitask and sacrifice and they think a lot. I love this about women. At the same time, I find this makes them tricky to portray realistically in fiction.<\/p>\n

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Host Mark, Mardi, Pam, Georgia and Kirsten<\/p><\/div>\n

So I went to \u201cWhen Genres Attack 2\u2033 last week at Shearer\u2019s Bookshop<\/a> in Leichhardt because the subject of discussion was heroines. The lovely Mardi McConnochie<\/a> (\u201cThe Voyagers\u201d), P M Newton<\/a> (\u201cThe Old School\u201d), Georgia Blain<\/a> (\u201cToo Close To Home\u201d) and Kirsten Tranter<\/a> (\u201cThe Legacy\u201d) were on the discussion panel, and a great deal of what they said about female characters, and readers\u2019 expectations of them, rang true.<\/p>\n

But some of it also surprised me.<\/p>\n

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Perfection is a flaw<\/p><\/div>\n

P M Newton kicked off the discussion by admitting that her female detective in \u201cThe Old School\u201d, Nhu ‘Ned’ Kelly, had been criticised because she had flaws, such as getting stomach upsets when distressed. Apparently, readers didn\u2019t want a woman in a difficult job to have flaws, they just wanted her to be strong.<\/p>\n

I agreed with P M Newton that it\u2019s unrealistic to expect a female character not to have flaws, as that would just be a fantasy. Also, a woman can have flaws and still be strong. In my view, that\u2019s called being human.<\/p>\n

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Some female characters simply aren't real.<\/p><\/div>\n

Georgia Blain added that she disliked it when men wrote strong female characters \u201cdevoid of emotion\u201d, such as Stieg Larrson\u2019s character Lisbeth Salander in his Millennium series and Peter H\u00f8eg\u2019s character Miss Smilla in \u201cMiss Smilla\u2019s Feeling for Snow\u201d, whom she felt were phoney. But I wasn\u2019t sure about that because, in many situations, I too am completely devoid of emotion, especially when I’m organising events, doing housework and saving the planet from its own inherent evils.<\/p>\n

Okay, so I don\u2019t save the planet from evil very often, but when there is<\/em> an emergency (personal or business) I do become a strategic mastermind who has little time for emotion \u2013 mine or anyone else\u2019s. Examples that spring to mind include car accidents, rushing my daughter to hospital with a back injury, my son having a life-threatening allergic reaction to a spider bite, you know, emergencies\u2026<\/p>\n

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If we went to war, I'd probably be a military strategist.<\/p><\/div>\n

So I can understand why Larrson and H\u00f8eg wrote their characters the way they did. But I also understand Georgia\u2019s point \u00ad\u2013 female characters devoid of emotion do chance being perceived by women readers as phoney, because those readers are themselves complex creatures who enjoy reading about complexity.<\/p>\n

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Fevvers fooled everyone.<\/p><\/div>\n

Mardi McConnochie went on to praise Angela Carter for writing as if being a woman was fun (which of course it is!) and that the key was opening up possibilities for female characters. Yet Kirsten Tranter said she received criticism for opening up possibilities for her female protagonist in \u201cThe Legacy\u201d, Julia, and allowing Julia to make a choice at the end of the novel that was essentially only for herself. Would Kirsten have received the same criticism had Julia been written as a male character? If the ending of Dennis Lehane\u2019s \u201cGone Baby Gone\u201d is anything to go by, said PM Newton, possibly not.<\/p>\n

So how should we write female characters?<\/p>\n

After listening to what these four vibrant authors had to say about both their own female characters and those of others, what became clear to me was that there will always be someone out there ready and happy to criticise the characters we write \u2013 whether they\u2019re male or female, whether we\u2019re male or female.<\/p>\n

So what\u2019s the answer?<\/p>\n

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You can't please everyone!<\/p><\/div>\n

I think the answer is the oldest answer of them all \u2013 there is no answer. As the leader of a writers\u2019 group, I know all too well that you are never going to please everybody. So really there\u2019s only one thing to do \u2013 write the character you want to write. Perhaps be self-aware about the type of woman (or man) you are, and the type you\u2019re not. Perhaps be vigilant about what your female characters might lack and what they might need to make them more realistic. But, ultimately, just write them as honestly and with as much of yourself in them as you can, and as long as you get inside their head, in the place that they\u2019re at in the world of your story, that character will be real \u2013 to you and others… but probably not everyone<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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