In 2001, I immigrated to Australia for love. I didn’t realise how much I was giving up. The first year was the hardest. I lost friends. I lost family. My qualifications and experience weren’t recognised here. I had a degree with honours and two diplomas but found myself working menial jobs because, as recruiters later admitted, employers of course prioritised Aussies over immigrants. People even spoke a different language! They wore thongs to the bottle-o for a cold one, and only bogans wore budgie-smugglers to the beach. I didn’t understand rips. I’d never heard of AFL or Aussie rules. All kinds of wildlife could kill me…
…even tiny spiders in the garden. Birds swooped at me every Spring. When people talked about politics, politicians, sport, television shows, celebrities, indigenous issues, music, books or movies – their conversations isolated me. No, I’d never watched ‘Hey Hey It’s Saturday’! What do you mean, ‘how’s the serenity?’. Some people even seemed to relish the opportunity to make a Brit feel uncomfortable, as if I was responsible for every wrong in history my country had ever done in the world; and none of what it’d ever done right.
The only place, however, where none of that mattered, was in nature. Trees, bushes, waves and rivers don’t care where you’re from, only that you respect them. I grew up near England’s New Forest, where it’s a delight to get lost and discover a country pub for lunch. Getting lost in the Aussie bush risked death… but exploring its spiky foliage also connected me with the land.
I grew up on the beach, where I’d spend days bathing in sun and floating on ripples. A day under the Aussie sun risked burnt skin and heat stroke… but ditching my lilo and learning to play in its surf also gave me a healthy respect for the waters of my new home.
The green and gold of Australia grounded me.
Here are some pics from my local bushwalk and beach, mere minutes from where I now live:
I used to hold my breath between visits home for rumbles across England’s rolling countrysides. Now, thanks to landscapes like these, I get to breathe every weekend (as long as it’s not raining!). I still struggle when conversations turn cultural; but I’ve found a way to make money without employment, I’ve learnt the language, and a bushwalk or boogie board at the beach soon comforts me and helps me understand my new home – its vastness and isolation, its warmth and beauty, its dangers and life.
This importance of ‘place’ for me is the same when I travel to other countries. It’s not the conurbations, but the geography that tells me the land’s story and shows me the rhythm of its people.
More than that, immigrating has informed the way I write, not because I write about the experience, but because I value developing a ‘sense of place’ in the stories I write. Whether a story’s set in a world we already know or a created fantasy world, a strong ‘sense of place’ can anchor readers, just as it anchors me to mine. So I spend time developing details, striking comparisons, and bringing the land alive for readers. I’m glad it’s one of the compliments I receive when readers enjoy my stories.
As for Australia, I’ve crossed the tipping point now between leaving somewhere I loved and belonging somewhere new. It’s not the crickets or wood pigeons but the cicadas and kookaburra that call me home. I even have an Aussie twang. This place of green and gold has won my heart, step by step through the rubbery grass trees and foamy surf.
What about you? What anchors you to your home, wins you over and makes you feel like you belong – whether you grew up there or not?
I envy you, Zena! haha I unfortunately do not feel at home where I am – not sure if I know where I should feel at home. I mostly feel like an outsider where I am. I have abusive neighbours who treat me like garbage, have no respect for my rights and have no sense of decency. And my neighbours are Australians.
I’m not an Aussie – have never thought of myself as one. I don’t talk Straylian and I don’t do what many Aussie’s do – drink and drive, go to nightclubs and parties. That’s not my kinda of fun, ma’am. Some even become abusive because I don’t drink or smoke ‘dope’. It sounds like me being hypercritical, or even a cultural snob, but I’m not like that and don’t condone it.
I don’t write Aussie stories, either. I have been criticised for that too. I was told to my face once that I’m an Australian, I should be writing Australian stories. I have no inclination to do that – never crosses my mind. I set one story in Australia and got accused of cultural appropriation.
Oh, and I most definitely do not like Summer. 😉 I’m a pale white guy; I burn, I don’t tan. Cursed genetics. And with the new heatwave, I’m not looking forward to experiencing heat exhaustion like I did with the last heatwave a few weeks back. I have a portable aircon, but it becomes dysfunctional when the temperature stays above 30 degrees three or four days.
But, despite it all, there is one place I feel at home: between the covers of a good book. 😉 And that ain’t never going to change. I suppose I could say bookshops and libraries are my second home! The library was the place to find me when I was young. Now its cafés and bookshops. Perhaps these are the places I feel at home?
Yes, yes, yes! Not your bad neighbours or cultural appropriation(!!), but the bookshops and libraries – they too are where I feel at home, no matter where they are in the world. A love of books and stories can transcend time and place. Those colourful enticing spines lined up waiting, that peaceful hum of thought and enquiry, the promise of discovery… what a great place to explore and find your grounding!
I grew up in country NSW in a family that has been in Australia for generations so why do I have such a fascination with mountains? Perhaps because they are so foreign to my life as a coastal dweller close to the white beaches and green surf of the Pacific’s rim. I learnt to ski as an adult and its attraction has always been bound up with romantic images of alpine adventure and Europe. To my warm-climate existence, snow, ice and high jagged peaks represent the ultimate in exotic other. So now I have my heart, my home, in two places.
What lovely words, Sue, and how wonderful that mountains have helped you find a second home in the world. Our association with place can certainly ground, but also draw us away!